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The End of Life Plannerby Valoren

General information · not a substitute for the advice of an attorney · Valoren is a publisher, not a law firm.

For American households · one state at a time

The End of Life Planner: everything your family will look for, in one printable binder

What your family will go looking for, the week they need it: where the accounts and papers are, who has to be told and how each one wants to hear, and eleven blank letters to tell them with. You print it at home and fill it in yourself, and every fact in it is dated.

On sale now for California, Illinois and Texas. The other states follow, one at a time, as each state’s edition is ready.

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  • A PDF you print on Letter paper, or type into on a computer. Nothing is shipped.
  • Eleven blank letters, ready to mail: each reports the death and asks only for what that organization needs.
  • Every fact dated, in the official words.
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organizations on the who-to-tell map

 
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blank letters to mail

 
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free pages on what to do after a death

What arrives

Six parts, in the order your family would reach for them.

The End of Life Planner's cover, California edition, on a wooden desk beside a fountain pen
The printed planner beside a telephone on a kitchen counter
The planner's PDF open on a laptop beside a cup of coffee
A woman taking the planner's pages from a home printer

Records sheets

Bank and card accounts, beneficiary designations, insurance, retirement accounts, vehicles, property and how its title is held, the safe-deposit box, and the online accounts your family would need to find.

Who to tell, and how

The federal agencies, the three credit bureaus, banks, custodians and insurers: how each one says it wants to hear of a death, in its own words, with the date we read its page.

What passes outside a will

The kinds of thing that usually pass outside a will: beneficiary designations, joint ownership, trusts, and accounts that go on death to a named person.

Eleven notification letters

Blank letters for a bank or credit union, a card issuer or lender, one credit bureau, a life insurer, a retirement or investment account, an employer, a pension payer, a service provider, a home lender or landlord, another insurer, and the Department of State for a passport.

Your state’s sheet

One sheet for the state the planner is bought for: what that state’s own court and records offices publish about probate, small estates and death certificates, each as the body states it, with the date it was checked.

The cards

Cut-outs with the first-call person’s name and number: one for a wallet, one for the spot by the phone.

One state at a time

Each planner is one state’s edition.

A state’s sheet holds what that state’s own court and records offices publish about probate, small estates and death certificates, each as the body states it, with the date it was checked. Nothing from another state.

On sale now for California, Illinois and Texas. The other states follow, one at a time, as each state’s edition is ready.

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Federal agencies
The credit bureaus
Banks and credit unions
Card issuers and lenders
Life insurers
Retirement and investment accounts
Who to tell, and how

No one place tells them all.

After a death, each bank, insurer and agency has to be told, one at a time. The planner lists them, with how each one says it wants to hear, in its own words, with the date we read its page.

What to do when someone dies, state by state
How it works

Four steps, and one sitting starts it.

  1. Pick your state

    The planner is sold in a state once its edition is ready, and it prints that state’s sheet.

  2. Fill in what you know

    By hand or on screen, a sheet at a time. There is no place for medical details, and nothing you type reaches us.

  3. Print it, or keep the PDF

    At home on Letter paper, or anywhere that prints a PDF. Keep the file with your other papers.

  4. Tell someone where it is

    A planner nobody can find helps nobody.

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In their words

What buyers of our UK edition say

It was, frankly, a huge relief rather than a chore. Everything of his is now written down in one safe place in his own handwriting. I know which pension provider we have and how to log into the electricity account.

Mrs G. Narramore

A buyer of the UK edition

Verified buyer

We sat down together on Sunday with coffee and biscuits to tackle it. Talking about what happens if the worst happens is a conversation most families avoid, but the structured layout meant it never felt morbid or heavy. It actually led to some of the warmest family discussions we’ve had in years. Everything is indexed and secure now.

David Turnbull

A buyer of the UK edition

Verified buyer

When my wife asked me to buy it I thought it would just be an overpriced empty binder. But it's actually very well structured. It takes the guesswork out of what paperwork actually matters. An unexpected bonus is that it stopped us bickering about where the house deeds and insurance policies were kept. Locked in the study safe now and sorted.

Chris Brocklehurst

A buyer of the UK edition

Verified buyer

Did it on the Sunday afternoon with my daughter. It's done now. I'll sleep easier.

Janet W.

A buyer of the UK edition

Bought in person

Bought it for my mother while she's still sharp enough to fill it in herself. She did it over two evenings. Said it was the first time anyone had asked her the right questions.

Peter N.

A buyer of the UK edition

Bought in person

Fifty years married and there was still stuff in there I'd never sorted. Where the deeds are, who to ring first. My son's got it now, on his shelf.

Margaret H.

A buyer of the UK edition

Bought in person

These are buyers of the UK edition. The US edition is new and has no reviews yet.

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The End of Life Planner

The binder: your records, who to tell, and the letters to tell them with.

US$39

  • Records sheets
  • Who to tell, and how
  • What passes outside a will
  • Eleven notification letters

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FAQ

Common questions

No. It is a PDF: pages laid out to print on Letter paper, with fields you can type into on a computer before you print.

Print it at home, or anywhere that prints a PDF, and keep the file with your other papers. Nothing is shipped.

No. A will says who inherits. The planner records what you have, where it is and who to tell, so your family is not left searching.

It is not a substitute for the advice of an attorney, and nothing in it is written for your situation.

It is on sale now for California, Illinois and Texas, and goes on sale one state at a time as each state’s edition is ready. The first ten are listed above.

Each planner is one state’s edition, with that state’s sheet and nothing from another state.

After a death, each bank, insurer and agency has to be told, one at a time; no one place tells them all. Each letter reports the death and asks the organization for what it needs, and no letter asks for anything to be paid out, transferred or released.

They are blank. You fill them in by hand or on screen and mail them yourself; nothing you write in them reaches us.

The sheets record where things are: the bank, the policy, the account. A full Social Security number has a place on one letter only, the one to a credit bureau, because the bureaus ask for it.

Keep the printed planner where you keep your other private papers, and tell one person where that is.

Yes. It is one state’s edition, so choose the state they live in, print it, and fill it in together, a sheet at a time.

The letters stay blank until the day they are needed.

Valoren, a publisher in London, England, of free, carefully sourced guides and records for families dealing with a death. We are not a law firm, and we do not give advice.

Every fact in the planner shows the body it was read from and the date it was checked.

Begin where you are

For anyone who would rather their family found it all in one place than went looking.

A couple. A parent. An adult child and a parent, doing it together. One sitting starts it; keep it current, and tell someone where it is.

Printable, fillable, and yours to keep: no login, no subscription, no renewal.

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